Success Is

For some people, success is measured in material things – monetary notes, the number of cars they own, the price tag on their house and the ability to shop at Neiman Marcus and Bergdorf Goodman. While these measures may be good for determining wealthy, I don’t find them to be an accurate indicator of success. As one’s success weighs heavily on other people. Oprah became successful through her TV talk show, which was dependent on a loyal audience who showed up in Chicago to sit in the audience and/or watched her on television. Steve Jobs success came from building a product that appealed to people, and attracted them into buying the newest version no matter what. Jay-Z’s success came not only from being a hip hop artist, but understanding the importance of reaching a market outside of his perceived demographic, in order to create a greater following. The success of these individuals and many others has nothing to do with money. Their acquisition of material goods is based upon the success they received from reaching a target audience and making a difference in their lives. Who in turn support them, their ideas and anything or anyone with whom they associate.

Now, this concept isn’t only for the mega-rich. It applies to all of us. I believe that if my actions can touch or change a life, then my goal has been reached. While money is needed to make purchases and survive, I don’t believe it to be the precursor of happiness and success. Those things come from being genuine in whatever you do and doing what you are passionate about. Teachers are underpaid, underappreciated and over-scrutinized. The work that they do and the foolishness they tolerate, from parents, students and sometimes administration, should have they in a much higher pay bracket, but does that mean they aren’t successful people. I would definitely consider my mom a successful teacher, because 10 years after having a student, they have seen her in the store and run over to hug her. Our success is dependent on others. When we make a positive difference in a life, we are sowing the seed for positivity to be paid forward.

A small difference can lead to great rewards.